Others (including myself) enjoy actually building a relationship with my sub, before gifts/money are given
I let go of fetlife, I don’t know if I’ll go back eventually, I don’t know. I do know for right now, it’s best I stay away from it for a while. Give it a break. I also was becoming annoyed with the new breed of “fuck you pay me” young dommes. Financial Domination has been around for a while, but this breed is a little bit more disturbing and is giving financial dommes a bad name.
A majority of people that read my blog usually traffic from fetlife, another majority are coming from search engines out of curiosity. A lot tend to have stereotypes about the people that live/participate in the D/s lifestyle.
1. All Doms are men! It’s impossible for a woman to be a Dom! Well, you’re right, because I’m not a Dom…. I’m a Domme. Please stop this, if 50 shades of grey is your only form of knowledge to the world of BDSM then before you decide to join the world….I would highly suggest learning before diving in. Or you’ll be in for a world of hurt.
2. Doms are all really https://hookupbook.org/together2night-review/ handsome men. Nope. From my experience I’ve seen Doms from all sides of the “attraction scale” I’ve seen all types of Doms. Fat, Hairy, Not too pleasant to look at, very pleasant to look at and all in between. If you’re looking for a Dom based on him looking like “Mr. Grey” you will…be in for a world of pure disappointment. That’s how you end up with an “asshole dom”
3. CAN WE PLEASE END THIS STEREOTYPE LIKE MC HAMMERS CAREER ENDED?? FAST. Please, stop. As a poly woman I can say, I don’t think it’s even close to an excuse to fuck everyone. I enjoy the relationship with another. My husband enjoys the relationship. Continuer la lecture de « Poly Relationships are just excuses to fuck everyone »