If you’re a nice person outside of the bedroom, it may feel hard to tap into that raw, animalistic energy that rough sex requires.
One way to work around this is to roleplay. If you feel like you’re just playing a character, it may be easier to let loose. You can set up a specific roleplay scenario with your partner. Pick something that has a natural power imbalance, like a teacher/student dyad. Or you can try simply envisioning yourself as someone else, like a celebrity or a character in a movie.
Talk dirty
If you feel a little nervous about getting physically rough, you can always start with dirty talk. Continuer la lecture de « Rough sex is really about being in the right state of mind »