Best Sites to Find a Threesome Partner Online
- XMatch
- FriendFinder-X
- Adult Friend Finder
- Feeld
Whatever your reason is for deciding to try and have a threesome, let us be the first to congratulate you on adding this potentially hot experience to your sexual repertoire. Even if it turns out to be a one-time thing, as long as you and your partner are on the same page about what it’ll mean for your relationship, it could be exactly what was needed to bring some fire and energy back to your sex life. But be weary.
“Being in a threesome can be a great experience but can also ruin a relationship,” cautions Dr. Stacy Friedman, a clinical sexologist and sex coach. “You need to have good communication where you can discuss different scenarios in order to avoid unexpected circumstances where you or the partner may not know how to handle.”
If a couple is open minded and can speak freely about their expectations as to why they want to add a third (boredom, spice it up, explore bisexuality, etc.), have done their research and are secure in the relationship, they may be ready to add someone to the mix. “Relationship struggles such as jealousy, control issues, trust concerns and feeling like their relationship needs saving because they aren’t attracted to their partner anymore, couples may want to reconsider,” says Friedman. “If you feel that you are lacking intimacy and aren’t focusing on the main issue at hand, adding someone to the mix can be quite damaging.”
Once you’ve considered the above and have mentally prepared yourself, the key to a good threesome is finding the perfect third. This is where it starts to become tricky, because finding someone for a menage a trois isn’t easy. Once you decide to go for it, where’s the best place to look for that third partner who’ll be the kink to your vanilla side? Selecting the right person to bring not only into your bedroom but your relationship can be a tall order and a really big decision. Continuer la lecture de « How to Find a Third Partner for a Threesome »